Pardon my intrusion... but one thing is clear to me... I tried to follow this thread and cannot make heads or tails of
Aussieman's reasons... i.e.: there are a bunch of responses as to how he should or should not react... BUT NOWHERE
is there a quote of the disparaging remarks made by whoever this admin person is... in other words... the whole
thread seems to assume one SHOULD know what the original remarks were... just like arguing men and wives...
In my opinion... the root of the problem is merely the assumption that EVERYONE knows what they are talking about...
Well, gentlemen... I found my curiosity picked by the subject to see what can so offend anyone... and I haven't found out
yet... My diagnosis... (yes I am a retired doctor) is this: Folks tend to be sort of "clicky"... start using jargon and words
only THEY know about... and that makes any outsider feel like that... AN OUTSIDER... in other words... alienates folks...
Taking is a little step further... this degenerates into a sort of disease... we only hear what we want to hear... or agrees with
our thinking.. and dismiss anything outside that circle... ergo... we make remarks that only hurt OTHERS... but WE think are
perfectly righteous... Whatever the disparaging remarks were... we need to keep them UP FRONT were they can be seen,
so then we can opine, feel happy or distressed, etc. Let us not do like the 3 blind men trying to describe the animal by
the little feel they cop with their hands...
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